Taekwondo - Integrity for Sale
One of the great things about
being "connected" in an
on-line world is the vast amount of material that's
available for review and commentary. These pages not
only give me a chance to speak, but provide a forum for
others' to share their experiences.
The following article is not unique. It describes
what we
all laugh at, the Belt Factory. Don't be fooled by the title
into thinking it's some light piece of fluff designed for a
few laughs. I have some comments after the article, but
for now, I invite you to read:
I AM THE PRODUCT OF A McDOJO by M.J.
Harday
I went into a training program in good faith.
I didn't
know much about karate, or even that there were
different types of martial arts, but I did know that I
wanted to learn how to defend myself.
To someone like me, whose only exposure was through
TV and movies, when a school opens and you go to see
the instructor, and he looks like what he does is a lot
like the things you see on TV, you tend to believe that
they really do know what they are doing. When the
price seems reasonable and he says "you look like
you're in pretty good shape, good enough I can promise
you'll be a black belt in 2 years" you get excited, and
you sign on the dotted line. When he offers you a 10%
discount for paying cash up front, you jump at it. And
then you start your classes, knowing that in just 2 years
you'll be a black belt and you'll be able to defend
yourself.
He was right. In 2 years I did get my black
belt. I went
through the test with a dozen other people, and we all
paid $500 to test, and amazingly enough we all passed.
We were downright proud of ourselves and each other
for getting through 2 years of sweat with each other,
helping each other to learn along the way.
Our classes just seemed like what a karate class should
be. We bowed in, we called each other 'sir" and
"ma'am"; we exercised and pushed ourselves hard to get
into shape; we learned countless katas and spent hours
working on special kicks.
We learned a lot.
What we didn't learn though, and didn't even realize we
weren't learning, was how to use the techniques that
were in the katas. We never learned to combine
techniques. We never realized just because we could do
these katas well, and just because we had nice looking,
fast and powerful kicks, that we didn't know how and
when to use them. We never sparred. None of us had
ever taken any real contact.
Most of us, so damned pleased with ourselves
for
sticking with it for two whole years, stayed and went for
our 2nd degree black belts. And then third. The only
thing that changed in the class patterns was the katas we
learned. But we were doing so well!
I could have stayed on that happy little path for the rest
of my life if not for what happened to someone else. I
wasn't even there, but it opened my eyes. It scared me
so badly that I had to start reading notes posted on the
Internet, and comparing what other people were saying
about their schools to what was going on in mine. I even
started checking out the things other schools in the area
were doing.
One of the men I started class with, one
of the guys who
blazed his way through to black belt in 2 years and
stuck with it along with me was beaten up in a way I
didn't think anyone could survive. He was a mass of
ripped flesh and broken bones and blood, and that was
after a few days of healing. He lost the hearing in one
ear and for a while they weren't sure he was going to
walk again. All because he was attacked, and he
thought he knew how to defend himself.
He says now that he was confident until he was hit with
the first punch. All that kata practice hadn't taught him
how to block effectively. We were never taught that a
kata is a fight from one side and that the things we were
doing represented someone else fighting us. It was just
patterns we had to learn. Block-punch-kick... well how
in the hell was that supposed to teach us anything when
we never really knew what it was in the first place, what
the movements represented, and how to counter attack?
We're not black belts. We're a bunch of well
conditioned dancers.
This guy could have died. As it is he will have lasting
effects of being beaten for the rest of his life. It was an
eye opener for all of us, when we realized none of us
had ever even taken a serious punch. Things just kind of
fell into place then. We didn't spar. We weren't allowed
to compete. The reason given that sport held no place in
his teaching, but the truth is that he couldn't afford for us
to be exposed to people in the martial arts who knew
what they were doing.
A few months later, we know. We were conned.
This
joker left his own instructor as a blue belt with only 2
years instruction because he thought he was good
enough. It wasn't good enough. His ego could have
gotten any of us killed.
If you own a belt factory, please think twice about what
you are doing. Your students trust you, and the rely on
you to teach them well. I spent a lot of years of my life
thinking I was being taught by a high ranking black belt
when he was just a smooth talking jerk who couldn't
stick with his own training. I thought I was about to test
for my 3rd degree black belt. Now I know, after talking
to people and then going to see other schools, that I am
probably no better skilled than the average 1-2 year
student with a orange or green belt. I might be faster and
have more endurance, but they know more than I do.
I have started training now with a Chung
Do Kwan
teacher who is 100% different. Nothing is a given with
him. He didn't promise me anything and hearing my
version of How-I-Got-My-Black-Belt insisted I begin
as a white belt, and he would give me ample opportunity
to progress if I learned things quickly.
You know, that first black belt just isn't as attractive
anymore.
I just want to be able to defend myself.
If you own a McDojo, think twice. It's not your life that
might end in a bloody heap on the side of the road. Can
you live with that? I hope not.
Integrity. Do you think this man's first
Instructor had
any? Do you think the ideals of discipline and loyalty
and respect and tradition were in his mind when he took
Mr. Harday's money? NO.
But, does it surprise you? Look around:
When Bill Clinton stepped off a plane in
Los Alamos,
NM he was greeted with signs that read: "if Hillary
doesn't mind, we don't either".
Diane Zamora wrote in her diary how proud she was
that she had killed her boyfriend's one time love interest.
A new television program called Dawson's
Creek touts
itself as "family programming". The main character, a 15
year old boy, is having a covert and illicit relationship
with his 35 year old teacher (who is married).
This then, is our society. WE have turned away from
God, and turned toward a morality that says "anything
goes". WE have allowed it to pervade our homes, our
workplace, and our children's lives. And WE have
allowed it to pervade the Martial Arts, by not paying
attention, by not asking questions, and by blindly
dropping our kids off without even thinking about the
possibility that anything could be "wrong" with the
institution of Martial Arts.
Mr. Harday was lucky. His friend was not.
Better look around people. Just because a Taekwondo
studio promotes respect and loyalty and talks about
good grades and has nice white uniforms and the Master
has numerous certificates and plaques on the wall does
not equate to VIRTUE.
What should you do? What is then, the answer?
The secret to morality and virtue is in my words above.
You just have to know where to look.